Răspuns :
Everyone has the freedom to change .Life every moment means change, even if new people generally do not like change. We like safety, and associate safety with stability, which we consider the opposite schimbării.In my opinion, we can not evolve without change.
First, the change means unknown, which we are afraid of the unknown. And often, even though we are better, we prefer to continue so that we feel safe. I know women who are now around 50 years, and have lived all my life with an alcoholic husband who was beating them. Wondering why you have not divorced, she said: "Who knows why also given man?" So the fear of the unknown he did not do anything to change their lives. The risk is that we do not want to assume it, because making a change, we take a risk.
Secondly, we prefer, often for convenience, we live life to us, not we live our lives. We expect things to change by itself a divine power to intervene, but we do steps toward change. We prefer to believe in destiny, than to believe we make our own destiny. We like to blame fate, life, about God, something happens to us when we do not like, or when something happens that we like.
We are all aware of what changes we should do and when they should do. Only pretend, even to ourselves, we do not know.
In conclusion, to achieve success, we must step out of our comfort zone, to accept change and evolve, reaching thus happiness. We can not be happy if we want to stagnate, because stagnation means involution. And we can not be happy when we want to devolve.
First, the change means unknown, which we are afraid of the unknown. And often, even though we are better, we prefer to continue so that we feel safe. I know women who are now around 50 years, and have lived all my life with an alcoholic husband who was beating them. Wondering why you have not divorced, she said: "Who knows why also given man?" So the fear of the unknown he did not do anything to change their lives. The risk is that we do not want to assume it, because making a change, we take a risk.
Secondly, we prefer, often for convenience, we live life to us, not we live our lives. We expect things to change by itself a divine power to intervene, but we do steps toward change. We prefer to believe in destiny, than to believe we make our own destiny. We like to blame fate, life, about God, something happens to us when we do not like, or when something happens that we like.
We are all aware of what changes we should do and when they should do. Only pretend, even to ourselves, we do not know.
In conclusion, to achieve success, we must step out of our comfort zone, to accept change and evolve, reaching thus happiness. We can not be happy if we want to stagnate, because stagnation means involution. And we can not be happy when we want to devolve.