1. They have to understand and support me . 2. They have to nurture me. 3.They have to finance me . 4 They don't have to stay mad at me . 5. They have to forgive me . 6. They have to inspire me to love and be loved. 7. They have to grow with me and learn new things from my experiences . 8. They have to love me. 9. They have to protect me . 10. They have to believe in me and motivate me whenever i need it . hope it helps.